(A mother posted about her son who said the most adorable thing, "I don't want you to get married because I want to marry you mommy!")
that is so cute.... we heard of this in psycholgy... the edipus complex by freud? and I guess there's one with the girls and their daddy.
JEN SAYS: i came across something like this.... not cute like the kid above but somewhat...
i have a step brotherwho's now 8. since the time he was born, i pretty much raised him as mom went off to work. i was 18 then. we were sooo close. even at a year old, he showed signs... frustration, aggression.... when my bf would be around. he would summon or push him away with his hand if bf sat to close or tried to hold me even if only my hand or shoulder. it only got more apparent as he turned 2, 3, 4, 5. my brother would grunt and do a little kick and say "stop!" if bf would hold my hand. it was cute because i adore him. so i just didn't do the holding or being to close to the around him.
i guess bc we are their security and in their eyes, their "property" of somewhat and another male species is a threat.... i don't know....
but i did explain to him little by little that i love him as my baby brother no matter what and that i would never leave him. _______ might be there but he will always be with me too. And just to keep him secure, I made sure that he never was put to the side when the bf was around.
The last of this issue was 3 years ago. That bf is gone.. that cheater haha... lil bro never had issues with my husband now.
that is so cute.... we heard of this in psycholgy... the edipus complex by freud? and I guess there's one with the girls and their daddy.
JEN SAYS: i came across something like this.... not cute like the kid above but somewhat...
i have a step brotherwho's now 8. since the time he was born, i pretty much raised him as mom went off to work. i was 18 then. we were sooo close. even at a year old, he showed signs... frustration, aggression.... when my bf would be around. he would summon or push him away with his hand if bf sat to close or tried to hold me even if only my hand or shoulder. it only got more apparent as he turned 2, 3, 4, 5. my brother would grunt and do a little kick and say "stop!" if bf would hold my hand. it was cute because i adore him. so i just didn't do the holding or being to close to the around him.
i guess bc we are their security and in their eyes, their "property" of somewhat and another male species is a threat.... i don't know....
but i did explain to him little by little that i love him as my baby brother no matter what and that i would never leave him. _______ might be there but he will always be with me too. And just to keep him secure, I made sure that he never was put to the side when the bf was around.
The last of this issue was 3 years ago. That bf is gone.. that cheater haha... lil bro never had issues with my husband now.
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